Since their genesis, video games have always been something worthy of fascinating about. After all, for many people, they can provide a great escape from the doldrums of repetitive and perhaps even outright boring duties of real life. Games make players the stars of their own adventures, helping them to feel like heroes who face different triumphs and save the day. The video game industry only seems to be getting even bigger and more popular, especially with all of the money being poured into them.
For some people, video games are a great form of entertainment. Others, though, become very distraught whenever they’re mentioned. It’d be foolish to claim that video games can’t be harmful. They definitely can be! They can take up a lot of time, distracting you from important responsibilities, and can sometimes lead to gaming addiction. Many also think that there’s no merit in playing games at all, and that instead they’re nothing but a waste of time. While there are certainly downsides to games, it is very unfortunate that some people generalize these negatives to the gaming industry as a whole. It may sound like just an excuse to say this, but not all games are as bad as people think they are. Hopefully bringing up some of the benefits offered by playing video games will help others to see that they do offer merit as well.
Perhaps one of the most common myths about video games is that they will ruin your social life. They’ll keep you inside all day in front of a screen, isolated from other humans and interaction. Lacking contact is certainly something to be concerned about, but worrying about games ruining your social life seems to be among the realm of worries best suited for the past.
Games no longer hold a “lame” reputation like they once did. They’re not something the be ashamed about. Quite the opposite, playing games may actually provide you with more opportunities for beneficial socialization. Think about something you really like to do, perhaps it’s baking, or going to the gym. Now think of the excitement you feel when you meet someone else who likes baking or going to the gym. Surely you’re going to talk a bit about those activities with the other person and you’ll probably wind up enthusing a bit together. Whether it’s someone you’ve just met or a person you’ve known for years, you’ve just managed to bond with them over a mutually enjoyed activity. This scenario can be true for video games as well. Maybe you and your new pal can get together to play a game sometime.
The great part about socializing with video games is that most games will have some sort of online multiplayer features. Think Xbox Live, for example, or massively multiplayer online games on the PC. You’re still playing games, but you’re interacting with hundreds of other people from all around the globe, each of which already has at least one thing in common with you: they’re playing the same game!
If you’re still skeptical, know that there are also plenty of opportunities for “real life” interaction thanks to games. Perhaps you’ve received an invitation to come play games at a friends house. Maybe you’ve heard about a gaming tournament at the local video game store. Or perhaps you’re lucky enough to live near a city where a full-blown gaming convention is held. Ranging from small to very, very large, gaming gatherings can happen quite frequently. These are all situations that can bring together tons of potential friends based on an interested they already share.
Whether you’re a worried parent or a concerned gamer yourself, know that playing video games won’t absolutely ruin your social life. Unless you’re purposely trying to avoid all human contact, there’s a good chance you’ll be able to bond with others over the different games you play. You might even have an easier time meeting new pals with similar interests.